#timesup

Unless you are living under a rock, you have most definitely seen, or heard the buzz about the powerful speech Oprah delivered this past Monday at the Golden Globes.

Delivered as she accepted the Cecil B. DeMille Award for lifetime achievement, to a room of guests, all clad in black in support of the #metoo movement, and supporting that #timesup against sexual harassment. Her speech was timely, on point and hit every mark.

Oprah is the first African-American woman to ever receive the award. And she took this platform to call to celebrate that. She called out sexual harassment and inspired a new generation of girls.

“what I know for sure is that speaking your truth is the most powerful tool we all have”

I felt motivated, and still do, reading her words over again. A new day is on the horizon. The world has finally stopped and is paying attention. Women are being heard, and standing together like never before. And it is about time!

I don’t know many people who don’t have a #metoo story. Or stories, plural. Which isn’t right.

I do.

From a high school teacher who made unwanted comments repeatedly, to a man who decided to drop his pants in front of me. Those times, those instances leave a mark.

Unwanted. Unwarranted. Unexpected. That’s the theme thread through each story. No matter who you ask.

I don’t want my daughters to experience this. I don’t want my nephews to think it’s acceptable to act however they please. So, now’s the time to stand up. Speak up.

“So I want all the girls watching here, now, to know that a new day is on the horizon!”

And I would say that the conversation came to a head on Sunday night. The conversations moving forward will be louder; more direct. Nothing will be held back anymore. People will be held accountable for their actions.

So, thank you Oprah Winfrey, for your words, your inspiration and your leadership. Most of all, thank you for sharing your stories, your spirituality and your passion. Little girls from the cheap seats everywhere are cheering.

A full transcript of her speech is below.

 

In 1964, I was a little girl sitting on the linoleum floor of my mother’s house in Milwaukee watching Anne Bancroft present the Oscar for best actor at the 36th Academy Awards. She opened the envelope and said five words that literally made history: “The winner is Sidney Poitier.” Up to the stage came the most elegant man I had ever seen. I remember his tie was white, and of course his skin was black, and I had never seen a black man being celebrated like that. I tried many, many times to explain what a moment like that means to a little girl, a kid watching from the cheap seats as my mom came through the door bone tired from cleaning other people’s houses. But all I can do is quote and say that the explanation in Sidney’s performance in “Lilies of the Field”:
“Amen, amen, amen, amen.”

In 1982, Sidney received the Cecil B. DeMille award right here at the Golden Globes and it is not lost on me that at this moment, there are some little girls watching as I become the first black woman to be given this same award. It is an honor — it is an honor and it is a privilege to share the evening with all of them and also with the incredible men and women who have inspired me, who challenged me, who sustained me and made my journey to this stage possible. Dennis Swanson who took a chance on me for “A.M. Chicago.” Quincy Jones who saw me on that show and said to Steven Spielberg, “Yes, she is Sophia in ‘The Color Purple.'” Gayle who has been the definition of what a friend is, and Stedman who has been my rock — just a few to name.

I want to thank the Hollywood Foreign Press Association because we all know the press is under siege these days. We also know it’s the insatiable dedication to uncovering the absolute truth that keeps us from turning a blind eye to corruption and to injustice. To — to tyrants and victims, and secrets and lies. I want to say that I value the press more than ever before as we try to navigate these complicated times, which brings me to this: what I know for sure is that speaking your truth is the most powerful tool we all have. And I’m especially proud and inspired by all the women who have felt strong enough and empowered enough to speak up and share their personal stories. Each of us in this room are celebrated because of the stories that we tell, and this year we became the story.

But it’s not just a story affecting the entertainment industry. It’s one that transcends any culture, geography, race, religion, politics, or workplace. So I want tonight to express gratitude to all the women who have endured years of abuse and assault because they, like my mother, had children to feed and bills to pay and dreams to pursue. They’re the women whose names we’ll never know. They are domestic workers and farm workers. They are working in factories and they work in restaurants and they’re in academia, engineering, medicine, and science. They’re part of the world of tech and politics and business. They’re our athletes in the Olympics and they’re our soldiers in the military.

And there’s someone else, Recy Taylor, a name I know and I think you should know, too. In 1944, Recy Taylor was a young wife and mother walking home from a church service she’d attended in Abbeville, Alabama, when she was abducted by six armed white men, raped, and left blindfolded by the side of the road coming home from church. They threatened to kill her if she ever told anyone, but her story was reported to the NAACP where a young worker by the name of Rosa Parks became the lead investigator on her case and together they sought justice. But justice wasn’t an option in the era of Jim Crow. The men who tried to destroy her were never persecuted. Recy Taylor died ten days ago, just shy of her 98th birthday. She lived as we all have lived, too many years in a culture broken by brutally powerful men. For too long, women have not been heard or believed if they dare speak the truth to the power of those men. But their time is up. Their time is up.

Their time is up. And I just hope — I just hope that Recy Taylor died knowing that her truth, like the truth of so many other women who were tormented in those years, and even now tormented, goes marching on. It was somewhere in Rosa Parks’ heart almost 11 years later, when she made the decision to stay seated on that bus in Montgomery, and it’s here with every woman who chooses to say, “Me too.” And every man — every man who chooses to listen.

In my career, what I’ve always tried my best to do, whether on television or through film, is to say something about how men and women really behave. To say how we experience shame, how we love and how we rage, how we fail, how we retreat, persevere and how we overcome. I’ve interviewed and portrayed people who’ve withstood some of the ugliest things life can throw at you, but the one quality all of them seem to share is an ability to maintain hope for a brighter morning, even during our darkest nights. So I want all the girls watching here, now, to know that a new day is on the horizon! And when that new day finally dawns, it will be because of a lot of magnificent women, many of whom are right here in this room tonight, and some pretty phenomenal men, fighting hard to make sure that they become the leaders who take us to the time when nobody ever has to say “Me too” again.

 

3 thoughts on “#timesup

  1. It’s also a new day dawning for boys. In today’s world, they are just as likely to fall victim to unwanted actions, to feel pressure to perform unthinkable acts just to protect their jobs. Oprah’s statements were tremendous in their inclusiveness. NO ONE should have to face abuse. WE ALL must stand together and treat each other with respect, regardless of gender, colour, size etc. We must choose love. #timesup

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    1. Absolutely!! I speak as a mom of two girls, but I do see it as a new day for everyone and I agree that we all must stand together. It’s time for more love, respect and kindness.

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  2. It’s also a new day dawning for boys. In today’s world, they are just as likely to fall victim to unwanted actions, to feel pressure to perform unthinkable acts just to protect their jobs. Oprah’s statements were tremendous in their inclusiveness. NO ONE should have to face abuse. WE ALL must stand together and treat each other with respect, regardless of gender, colour, size etc. We must choose love. Always, for everyone. #timesup

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